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5 Things You Donโ€™t Need to be Happy, Fulfilled, and Successful

This Medium post has lots of juicy points.

๐Ÿ‘‰ 5 Things You Donโ€™t Need to be Happy, Fulfilled, and Successful

It’s so good that I am just going to summarize it and quote it a lot right here per my own goals, but you should read it for yourself.

You Donโ€™t Need A Bunch of Money – But making money encourages personal growth and gives you freedom and peace of mind. And the personal growth keeps you away from bad jobs, bad bosses, and bad commutes.

You Donโ€™t Need to โ€œFind Your Passionโ€ – Just be good at something. Passion comes from being good at something, not the other way around. Being good at decent job can get you autonomy, a sense of meaning, and a positive work environment.

If you want to love what you do, abandon the passion mindset (โ€œwhat can the world offer me?โ€) and instead adopt the craftsman mindset (โ€œwhat can I offer the world?โ€).

Cal Newport

You Donโ€™t Need Everyone to Like You – “The best way to get other people to like you is to learn how to like yourself.”

You Donโ€™t Need (Or Even Want) to Be Famous – “What can you pursue if fame isnโ€™t the answer? Pursue building a tribe instead.”

I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that itโ€™s not the answer.

Jim Carrey

You Donโ€™t Need Your Life to be a Movie – “You want a feeling of accomplishment, growth, and the pride that comes from following through with your goals.”

The secret of leadership is simple: Do what you believe in. Paint a picture of the future. Go there. People will follow.

Seth Godin
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Doing Great Things is Boring ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ

It’s all about consistency, process, and patience… I know, yawn. But also, wow!

Interesting story here about how this guy changed his life in one year.

๐Ÿ‘‰ How I Changed My Lifeโ€™s Trajectory in Only 1 Year

For him, it came down to a few simple behaviors applied consistently.

  • Being curious
  • Meditating
  • Writing
  • Reading
  • Saying no
  • Deemphasizing external approval
  • Doing these things consistently

I’m trying to do the same, but I would add exercising, playing music, and goofing around with the kids to the list as well. ๐Ÿ˜›


See also

This article about going slow and sticking to the process.

The moment you start enjoying the process, youโ€™ll realize that this is what life is all about.

And this article about consistency.

The world is brimming with ideas, but few act as vessels.

Creating is not simply laying out the concept, but adapting through implementation as many times as needed until it finally works.